Thursday, September 18, 2008

Its just over-rated sometimes.

Here's a random thought for you.

Anyone here ever thought that most of the time, movies where the guy always and I mean, ALWAYS gets the girl, or vice versa, you being the person that has never really experienced mutual love feel like, "Oh how I wish I was that person," feel that the movie instead of being a love movie is just right down depressing?
Anyone?
Or am I the only one here with those thoughts in mind?

Ever wonder how some people are able to go throughout their lives without ever knowing what it was to feel loved?
And of course there are many types of love.
There's the parent-child type of love,
there's the best friend type of love,
and of course, lets not forget there's love coming down from above.

Someone once said, the greatest happiness in a anyone's life would be to love and be loved in return.
Sadly for some, that's just not possible.
Maybe they were fated for that,
Maybe they just missed their chance,
Maybe they didn't get their chance,

Anyone ever watch the Holiday before?
Great script.
Great soundtrack and music.
Even greater message.
Most of us as teenagers should have at least ONCE experienced one-sided love.
Maybe more than once.
It just hurts no?
And we just keep convincing ourselves into waiting a little longer in the hopes that maybe,
just maybe, something might happen.
Yet in the end nothing happens.
I can't totally describe the message the movie bring but just watch it.

Anyways, besides movies,
it just hit me recently.
One of my friends has been down in the dumps for too long over a girl.
So then I ask him, ever had any history with her?
None, he replied.
But yet he still mourned over the fact that he might never be with her.
The most he's ever done was say hi if he ever bumped into her.
There's a moral in here,
Saying, if you want something, especially if that something is love,
Don't sit on your ass weeping about how love is not going to come your way,
Cos its already there, just waiting for YOU to come to it.

And here's another message for you readers (if you've actually read all the way so far without any visual aids)
If you've got a broken arm, then brace it.
If you've got a broken heart, then face it.
Its never easy. Especially if its been broken one too many times by the same person.
So just pick up the pieces. Sitting on your ass wondering what the hell happened won't change a thing.
If its meant to be, its meant to be.


Well, for those of you who've made it to the end of this post, thanks.
Part of this post might not have made sense, but hey it was just what was on mind.
But one last note on a broken heart.
Sometimes, a broken heart ain't all that bad.
In a way it refines you.
Maybe you might find another, maybe you might find yourself with same same.
Whichever way it goes,
If you love someone, just go for it.
You never know what tomorrow brings.
Relish in the moment.






More posts like this? Comment pls.


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