Friday, September 19, 2008

Accountability.

Ever wonder how friendships begin?
They first begin by two people having possible mutual interests and both hope to gain something from each other because of those mutual interests.

How do friendships grow?
By the sharing of personal information between two friends.
This in turn creates trust.

How do friendships become close?
By the sharing of certain special experiences in life between friends.
Be they good or bad.

How do friendships deteriorate?
I'm not too sure...Maybe its because of sharing of personal information with other people besides two close friends.
Maybe an event where something out of the ordinary may occur and thus both parties suffer.

You know what?
Maybe its distance.
Maybe its time.
Maybe its both.
But at the same time, accountability is one of the most important things you need in a friendship.
Knowing you can trust one another with your secrets and problems and trust that your friends can disclose theirs in you.
There never had or has to be secrets between close friends.


Let me be frank.
I'm not sure who you are.
But thanks for being there.
And there's no need for aliases.

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